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Exodus 23:20 (ERV) “I am sending an angel before you to protect you along the way and to lead you to the place that I have prepared for you. I hope you all had a fantastic Thanksgiving. It's been a while since I wrote a blog post, mainly because my mom hasn't been well. I had to place her in hospice care, and it's been a tough journey. She's quite the rebel, always fighting and cursing at everyone around her. Recently, I came across a photo of my adopted brother, David Williams. I'd only met him three times before he was adopted. He was born in Fort Lauderdale, Florida, and my grandmother tried to take him in, but the state said she had too many people in her house. My mom, dealing with addiction and legal issues, couldn't care for him. Despite the pain, my grandmother, who valued family deeply, wanted to keep us all together. Right now, I'm in the process of planning my mom's funeral, and it's a mix of emotions that's hard to put into words...

                 Romance Reimagined: A Mature Approach to Online Dating Sites Ever wondered why so many awesome individuals find themselves flying solo? Well, let me spill the tea on what I think might be the deal. It's all about those sneaky factors lurking in the shadows, keeping people from connecting with someone on their wavelength. In my humble opinion, the key to breaking free from the solo status is uncovering those hidden gems that align with your vibe. You'd be surprised how many like-minded souls are out there just waiting to be discovered. MillionaireMatch - Premium Dating Site PositiveSingles - #1 STD & Herpes Dating Site SeniorMatch - Senior Dating Site for Mature Singles Over 50 Now, let's talk about a game-changer – online dating. I've seen firsthand how it's transformed the lives of people around me. You wouldn't believe the success stories of those who took the plunge into the digital dating pool and found their perfect...

Romans 10:12 ERV It says this because there is no difference between those who are Jews and those who are not. The same Lord is the Lord of all people. And he richly blesses everyone who looks to him for help. ERV: Holy Bible: Easy-to-Read Version  It's a chill Saturday afternoon, around 4:43 pm, and I'm multitasking - watching the Netflix movie "Rustin" while sorting through my clothes. The film is all about Bayard Rustin, a gay activist shaking up the civil rights scene in 1963 America. I'm a sucker for civil rights movies, but this one's a unique take. I'm halfway through and couldn't help but wonder, what are the thoughts of kids white and black growing up in the civil rights era and watching the world? From my experience, hanging out with folks of all shades, I sense a mix of emotions. Some white peeps seem kind of guilty, and some black folks carry a bit of bitterness. I might be off, but hey, born in '85, rolling into 2023, I've seen a b...

  I'm sharing my take on intimacy after 38 years of life's twists and turns. To me, intimacy is all about that close, romantic connection and the warmth of friendship, creating a cozy atmosphere that brings genuine peace to our lives. It's the beautiful rapport that adds meaning to our journey. For me, intimacy is about fostering a connection of understanding. Picture this: chatting on the phone with a stranger and having an intimate conversation where you feel truly heard and valued, is the essence of intimacy, meaningful connections, both romantic and friendly, in this ever-evolving adventure we call life. Romantic Intimacy Romantic Intimacy – that genuine connection that makes you daydream at work or while cruising down the road. It's all about the touch, kindness, those unforgettable moments, and the urgent desire to be with that special someone. Now, I haven't walked down the aisle, so I can't spill the beans on married life, but when it comes to relations...

  I'm on a journey of healing from the inside out. For the longest time, I had it the other way around. With a teenage son and a peek into pop culture, I'm determined to guide the next generation differently. So many teens are caught up in the trend that material things define you, but that's not the truth. It's your heart and soul that shape who you are and the connections you make. Let's shift the focus to what t ruly matters! Dealing with burnout is tough—it's like this mental, emotional, and physical drain. Personally, I find myself in burnout mode when I attempt to be a superhero, clocking in crazy work hours without giving myself some much-needed "me time." I get it; everyone's experience is unique, but for me, burnout feels like a bit of a setback. Let's chat about overcoming this and finding balance! Treating myself to a vacation or a chill night is my absolute jam. On my last birthday, I took a solo trip to Washington DC, and it was...

  What truly brings me peace is being in the comfort of my own home, settling into my personal space, and taking a moment to unwind. I find solace in reflecting on the goodness of God, His blessings in my life, and the incredible things He has accomplished for me. As I relax and perhaps enjoy a bit of tranquility with some herb, I am reminded of the words from Psalm 46:10: “Be still, and know that I am God.” This verse encourages me to embrace those quiet moments, to find stillness, and to recognize the presence of the divine in my life. In those serene moments, I find clarity, gratitude, and a sense of connection with the Creator who has been with me through it all.  RESELLRIRI'S BOOK AND MEDIA

  I’ve found that sharing my healing journey openly has been a source of strength during challenging times. Journaling has always been a helpful practice throughout my life. Lately, my engagement on TikTok, where I connect with others and share stories, has made a significant impact on my ongoing situation. My mother has struggled with substance abuse and mental abuse towards me for a long time. Currently, she’s in hospice care, and her actions have strained our relationship to the breaking point. While I’ve chosen to forgive her and keep my distance, her disrespectful behavior towards me, my son, and my brother remains a challenge. I attempted to reconcile with her in the past, but it’s clear she’s struggling with severe depression. However, this doesn’t excuse mistreating others, especially one’s own children. It’s been difficult to grieve a living person. Every day, I see an opportunity for change. To bring about that change, I make it a point to write down my goals and take ste...