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My 21-Day Liquid-Only Journey: Embracing the Daniel Fast

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Isaiah 58:6 NLT“No, this is the kind of fasting I want: Free those who are wrongly imprisoned; lighten the burden of those who work for you. Let the oppressed go free and remove the chains that bind people. Hey everyone! So, guess what? I'm on day 9 of my 21-day fasting and prayer journey, and it's been pretty awesome so far! I'll keep it real with you - I did slip up twice, but it was just for a tiny indulgence of one oatmeal cookie each day. Couldn't resist that chewy feeling. The inspiration for this fast came from watching one of my favorite preachers, Mike Todd. He mentioned his church doing a 21-day fast, and it felt like a sign from God. Now, every night, I'm glued to his YouTube program about fasting and prayer. Also, I've been diving into my prayer book and planning to read the Bible. Feeling fantastic – loads of energy and a clear head. Not sure about the weight loss, but I definitely feel lighter. Thanks to gallons of water, I haven't b...

Triumphs, Tragedies, and the Unstoppable Pursuit of a Better Tomorrow- Happy New Years Isaiah 43:19

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   Isaiah 43:19 For I am about to do something new. See, I have already begun! Do you not see it? I will make a pathway through the wilderness. I will create rivers in the dry wasteland. 2023 was a year of learning and gaining knowledge for me. How about you? I firmly believe that God orchestrates everything for a reason and a season. The first unexpected event in 2023 was when over 300 of my eBay listings disappeared. It was a headache, and I haven't replaced those listings yet. The last significant event in 2023 was the passing of my mom, and everything that occurred thereafter contributed to genuine mental health challenges. As we step into 2024, I've revamped my apartment, reorganizing everything for a fresh start. My focus this year is on self-improvement and caring for my child. I hope to avoid attending any more funerals. I continue to pursue my dreams and personal development. In the past, I used to struggle with saying no to events, but not anymore. I cherish the...

Thanksgiving Goodbye: Remembering My Rebel Mom's Last Roar

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Exodus 23:20 (ERV) “I am sending an angel before you to protect you along the way and to lead you to the place that I have prepared for you. I hope you all had a fantastic Thanksgiving. It's been a while since I wrote a blog post, mainly because my mom hasn't been well. I had to place her in hospice care, and it's been a tough journey. She's quite the rebel, always fighting and cursing at everyone around her. Recently, I came across a photo of my adopted brother, David Williams. I'd only met him three times before he was adopted. He was born in Fort Lauderdale, Florida, and my grandmother tried to take him in, but the state said she had too many people in her house. My mom, dealing with addiction and legal issues, couldn't care for him. Despite the pain, my grandmother, who valued family deeply, wanted to keep us all together. Right now, I'm in the process of planning my mom's funeral, and it's a mix of emotions that's hard to put into words...

Romance Reimagined: A Mature Approach to Online Dating Sites

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                 Romance Reimagined: A Mature Approach to Online Dating Sites Ever wondered why so many awesome individuals find themselves flying solo? Well, let me spill the tea on what I think might be the deal. It's all about those sneaky factors lurking in the shadows, keeping people from connecting with someone on their wavelength. In my humble opinion, the key to breaking free from the solo status is uncovering those hidden gems that align with your vibe. You'd be surprised how many like-minded souls are out there just waiting to be discovered. MillionaireMatch - Premium Dating Site PositiveSingles - #1 STD & Herpes Dating Site SeniorMatch - Senior Dating Site for Mature Singles Over 50 Now, let's talk about a game-changer – online dating. I've seen firsthand how it's transformed the lives of people around me. You wouldn't believe the success stories of those who took the plunge into the digital dating pool and found their perfect...

Unfiltered 2023: From 90s Cool to Today's Bonkers Reality

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Romans 10:12 ERV It says this because there is no difference between those who are Jews and those who are not. The same Lord is the Lord of all people. And he richly blesses everyone who looks to him for help. ERV: Holy Bible: Easy-to-Read Version  It's a chill Saturday afternoon, around 4:43 pm, and I'm multitasking - watching the Netflix movie "Rustin" while sorting through my clothes. The film is all about Bayard Rustin, a gay activist shaking up the civil rights scene in 1963 America. I'm a sucker for civil rights movies, but this one's a unique take. I'm halfway through and couldn't help but wonder, what are the thoughts of kids white and black growing up in the civil rights era and watching the world? From my experience, hanging out with folks of all shades, I sense a mix of emotions. Some white peeps seem kind of guilty, and some black folks carry a bit of bitterness. I might be off, but hey, born in '85, rolling into 2023, I've seen a b...

Intimacy: A Reevaluation Journey

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  I'm sharing my take on intimacy after 38 years of life's twists and turns. To me, intimacy is all about that close, romantic connection and the warmth of friendship, creating a cozy atmosphere that brings genuine peace to our lives. It's the beautiful rapport that adds meaning to our journey. For me, intimacy is about fostering a connection of understanding. Picture this: chatting on the phone with a stranger and having an intimate conversation where you feel truly heard and valued, is the essence of intimacy, meaningful connections, both romantic and friendly, in this ever-evolving adventure we call life. Romantic Intimacy Romantic Intimacy – that genuine connection that makes you daydream at work or while cruising down the road. It's all about the touch, kindness, those unforgettable moments, and the urgent desire to be with that special someone. Now, I haven't walked down the aisle, so I can't spill the beans on married life, but when it comes to relations...

Healing from Within: Break Free from Burnout and Rediscover Balance

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  I'm on a journey of healing from the inside out. For the longest time, I had it the other way around. With a teenage son and a peek into pop culture, I'm determined to guide the next generation differently. So many teens are caught up in the trend that material things define you, but that's not the truth. It's your heart and soul that shape who you are and the connections you make. Let's shift the focus to what t ruly matters! Dealing with burnout is tough—it's like this mental, emotional, and physical drain. Personally, I find myself in burnout mode when I attempt to be a superhero, clocking in crazy work hours without giving myself some much-needed "me time." I get it; everyone's experience is unique, but for me, burnout feels like a bit of a setback. Let's chat about overcoming this and finding balance! Treating myself to a vacation or a chill night is my absolute jam. On my last birthday, I took a solo trip to Washington DC, and it was...